At the age of thirty, to face this problem can be quite worrying indeed. What you are facing is a condition called anejaculation. Anejaculation is a condition that sometimes affects men and its causes lie in psychological issues, the use of certain type of drugs, or a nervous system malfunction. This kind of a condition requires qualified expertise to help you out as many home remedies or natural remedies for male reproductive health are not very effective.
Anejaculation is usually a part of yet another problem called retrograde ejaculation. In this condition, the semen instead of going into the urethra ends up in the urinary bladder as a kind of reverse flow. Typically, the muscles around the area will prevent this kind of a back wash by sealing off the route to the urinary bladder, which is the reason why it is sometimes very difficult to urinate immediately after ejaculating and also the reason why orgasms and urination do not ever happen together. Anejaculation is one of the problems of retrograde ejaculation, though it can exist without the presence of the other. When anejaculation exists in isolation, it is usually believed to be a psychological problem and various tests are performed to check if the problem occurs due to being with a certain partner or because of some kind of stigma with the sexual act. Some tests also include forcing ejaculation when a patient is asleep to ensure that retrograde ejaculation is not the problem. Both anejaculation and retrograde ejaculation are very difficult conditions to treat. Some of the treatment options include the use of drugs like ephedrine but these have limited or no long term effect. Other treatments include the use of electrical stimulation to force ejaculation. Most people with this problem reconcile themselves to this new state of being.
Since the problems of anejaculation are related to the muscles not pushing out the seminal fluid well enough of because of a nervous system malfunction, the mind is the crucial aspect in rectifying anejaculation. Start an exercise regime that includes several squats. Also indulge in exercise of the pelvis and simulated movements like when you are in the missionary position. This should be combined with stimulation of the penis to gain a full erection and then letting it drop. Repeat this extensively and think of it as a reproductive work out. Do not try to masturbate yourself to death in an attempt to solve this problem as there is no problem with your testes. Focus your energies of the mind and try to have sexual intercourse only once in a month.
answered by G R